Do not keep partaking in other peoples bad behavior. Gossip, hate, envy, adultery, and more. If an issue does not concern you directly, do not cosign and encourage a bigger problem out of it. By not being honest with your peers about their disturbing behavior you are indirectly a part of it. If you find your peers behavior disturbing, stop pretending and talk to them. I have noticed that a lot of us grown women and mamipikins are great at adopting bad behavior or issues that we have no business being a part of, but refuse to partake in anything that uplifts the next woman who needs our love and support. We are so dishonest with each other on matters that should be addressed with love and honesty.
Your children watch you more than they listen. Do not take your behavior around your children for granted. You want to raise leaders, who are influenced by your positive behavior. You want to raise children that have great self confidence that comes from watching their mothers. Be a woman who doesn't faint at every temptation, a woman who can stand their own ground. A woman who does not need to "belong" by partaking in bad behavior for acceptance.
Be the voice of reason.
Let nomamipikin be left behind!
Kisses,
This is so true but the most difficult part is telling someone what you think they are doing wrong... It's like judging and vice versa the way you feel when being judged. I mostly try to stick to me and do me... That doesn't mean it's perfect but I'll better do me than try to belong or copy someone and with have greatly learned to Shawn activities that can lead to hurting others... More outspokenness in our community is needed but comes with a cost.. Keep it up Eurykah someday someone will heed and a little will change. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteYou are correct Doro. It's better to be you. You are also bound to tell those you love the truth, out of love. Great insight.
DeleteThank you for reading 💚.
Xoxo
This is so true but the most difficult part is telling someone what you think they are doing wrong... It's like judging and vice versa the way you feel when being judged. I mostly try to stick to me and do me... That doesn't mean it's perfect but I'll better do me than try to belong or copy someone and with have greatly learned to Shawn activities that can lead to hurting others... More outspokenness in our community is needed but comes with a cost.. Keep it up Eurykah someday someone will heed and a little will change. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteThe Good Voice...This is perfectly how to relate with people and their issues...Stand back or be honest
ReplyDeleteStand back or be honest. You are definitely correct. Honesty coming from a place of love. Thanks for reading my sis.
DeleteXoxo 💛💛
The Good Voice...This is perfectly how to relate with people and their issues...Stand back or be honest
ReplyDeleteThis message is soo on point..You will agree that people who say it like it is are not "liked"...When you call people out enough times, they know that you are not part of their "Kongossa" crew..;).
ReplyDeleteThat is right. #youarenotpartoftheircongossa
DeleteGreat write up Euri
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