Your Outside versus the truth

    You are Gods masterpiece. Looked in the mirror last night after my shower and smiled at how much I had changed physically and how it no longer bothered me. I smile because i have understood that this type of physical change is part of my journey, and i know i always can bounce back  my sexy momma days haha. 
  Then I thought about my environment/society and how we focus so much on the outside, and are really dying on the inside. Its easy to focus on the physical to avoid how much is going on inside of you. I realize that we are broken on the inside about a list  of insecurities and yet spend thousands of dollars working on the outside. 

      A broken woman needs professional help. There is no amount of shopping, sex, alcohol, gossip, lies, etc and all the other distractions that can fix a broken woman. We must be able to admit that we are broken on the inside and seek help to solve the root of the problem. Prayers, counseling, change of friends, and a great deal of self confidence is a starting point. Don't live "half a life" because you seem to be doing great on the outside and dying on the inside. 

  Did I mention that a man cant fix whats broken on your inside? if you have issues you need to work on your issues. Unless this man is your therapist he is not equipped to handle the task at hand. Look at your self in the mirror, no not the mirror on the wall, the inner mirror and start working from the inside out. 

Let nomamipikin be caught up on working on the outside with an inside that no one will want to take a peek at. Seek professional help, your church, local women's help support groups, counseling, and more. Its not telling your business its getting the help you need so you can be a better mother, sister, wife, daughter, and more. Its giving yourself the first class treatment you deserve. 

Love you all. 
Kisses

"No Mami Pikin Left Behind"

 
     The dishes can wait, the laundry can wait, the ironing, folding, putting away and sorting can wait. Today everything was put on hold and we  gave ourselves a mandatory "timeout" for this amazing photo shoot by http://drevizionmedia.com/ who captured every moment beyond perfect. I wanted to celebrate my fourth pregnancy in a way that was enjoyable contrary to what society thinks it should be the fourth time around, as if to say one child was more important than the other. The shirts were an affirmation that this is a new day for my sister Fri and I. My favorite observation lately is catching the general discomfort when I tell someone I am having my fourth child. I laugh on the inside as they struggle with their thoughts on how to respond since they have chosen to become the God of all mothers. 

 "Do not live for the opinions of others, you will die in that same manner."

   "nomamipikinleftbehind"
 No mother will be left out of the fun times happening in today's world, we wont be under-looked, misunderstood and misjudged.We are saying that there's life left in us, Post stretchmarks, back-pain, painful labor, weight-gain, life-changing labor pain, financial changes, emotional and physical changes, and a lot more.You must create time to live a little. Every mother must create time for a "breather". Your children deserve a mother who is all-encompassing. 
 

 

 

Let no mami pikin be left behind! Celebrate motherhood.



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