So when I started this blog I thought it will be for mothers only, little did I know that it will be a place to share with everyone. I still love my mamipikins a little extra don't get it wrong now :) but I am hoping that every reader is blessed by each post I share❤️.
So I am looking through my timeline/newsfeed of life and I really cannot help but wonder why we choose the most ridiculous/sad/disappointing/ nicknames for ourselves and will sometimes have the nerve to use them as our preferred titles. I wonder if we realize that we are being labelled by a 30year old negative story because thats all we have portrayed. We settle in a negative circumstance and give room to small minded folk who are dealing with their own self esteem issues to ridicule us!
You cannot be labelled by your current circumstance. There is YOU and then there is your current circumstance (which is almost always temporary). People can feel the energy around what you call yourself, if you decide to stay defeated, then every time they refer to you they do so in reference to defeat.How dare you accept to be called anything but "overcomer", "favor", "go getter", etc? A parent who cannot separate themselves from their current misfortune will see the worst in everything around them including their children.
Get out of the funk and call yourself victorious. Look at the winner in you, look at the woman who overcame bullying, look at the single mother who is able to balance a career and raise kids,look at YOU! Take a look at all the good that has come out of you.
Let nomamipikin live in her sad past, when you decide to call yourself any name whatsoever, make sure its nothing but strong and positive and the world will follow your lead.
Kisses.
