Your choices...

   

 As a mother of 4 children, aunty, Godmother, wife, sister, daughter and more, I chose to work 5 days a week from home and run a fast pace, fast growing, event planning company on the weekends. This works for my family. Other mothers work out of the home and that works best for their families. Basically every family does what is best for them. There is no perfect way. No way, not at all, just what works best!

     Now with that being said I am running into some very insensitive people and I'm sure you my fellow mamipikins are too. People who assume that they have a blueprint for a perfect mother. Do not apologize for the decisions you make in regards to the well being of your family. Do not get in the habit of explaining "what" and "why" to anyone. Keep your responses short and direct to the point. Learn to spend your time and energy wisely!  No one can possibly love your child and or children more than you. Don't let people run your homes. Don't fall under the pressure of "others".

     Whatever you choose to do or give as a mom is usually your best. Stand behind your own choices. Your family should be your number one priority.

Let nomamipikin live for anyone else. Your choices are "YOUR" choices.

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