You must make a message out of your Mess.

     Its been a while my loves:).  I decided to share with you a message that is dear to my heart. I meet so many new people in my line of work and  I continue to gather that low self esteem is a huge problem in our community. Women are having a hard time leaving the past in the past because they are surrounded by reminders of their "past".  Its not only getting  harder to move on in life after making some poor choices but i find that most women are ashamed to come to God for fear that they are not good enough. If we continue to live in the past how then can we raise kids and teach them about having great self esteem? Mothers are the backbone of the home. When a mother lacks self confidence it rubs off on the kids. Let nomamipikin be left out of the Great self confidence checklist.

#nomamipikinleftbehind

So I  recently participated in a segment on http://www.thechildrenofdestiny.com/c.o.d-media.html called 

" REAL TALK WITH THE CHILDREN OF DESTINY " ( check children of destiny out, its a huge resource and a big part of keeping me a sane mamipikin) www.thechildrenofdestiny.com 

Here with the question i got from one of the listeners:  
" My life is a mess. I have made too many mistakes. I have slept around, gossiped and had multiple abortions. I would like to get close to God but i am not ready. As sick as my life is right now, it's still mine. I am overwhelmed and i don't know where to start. Am I too far gone? "

Here with my answer: 
I hope it blesses someone. 

(Click on the link below to listen to my answer)

http://www.thechildrenofdestiny.com/c.o.d-media.html

 "  You have to find a way to confront and accept life lessons in mistakes of your past, once you have done that no one else is allowed or will be able to hold them over your head. People like to hold you in the past because it makes them close their eyes to your current growth. God is not looking for a perfect child, he is looking for a child who understands that perfection in found only in him." 

Eurykah Fon Ndumu 

Let Nomamipikin be left behind.  You must make a message out of your Mess.


 My 5 year old son asked me how where he could "get" a girlfriend from? Does anyone know? Wizkid and I are still looking for Caro from December last year.

Kisses,