Weaning. Is it time?

    Hope everyone had an awesome Easter. Just thought I will share my emotional journey on trying to wean my 14 month old from the good old "bobbi" as my children call it. I recently went to work out of town and before leaving I had an agreement with my support system before boarding the plane. The agreement or plea rather was not so simple. It was to bear with my 14 month old who would be extremely upset at them for the weekend because I was in the process of weaning him. This would be my very first trip without my travel partner. 

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I came back to a seemingly weaned baby until it was bedtime. Everyone who helped babysit did a tremendous job I must say. Then came bedtime. And then I suddenly realized that maybe weaning him cold turkey was not such a great idea. He cried on and off night and day for about a week. Some days I cried more than he did from the pain and headache the engorgement caused me. He will cry for long periods at a time and was completely inconsolable. It was horrible. I was tired, helpless and so angry at myself for starting the whole process in the first place. Remember there is no perfect weaning time for any baby, it's totally up to you). Yes it was time for me because my son was breastfeeding through the night which meant I was not getting any sleep. He is 14 months old and this is our first night of sleep since he was born. I mean uninterrupted 5/6 hours of sleep. Today is a special day for me. 

      As a mother I appreciate the little things. Being able to sleep uninterrupted is such a big deal. I had forgotten what it felt like. I also appreciate our siblings who are definitely the best support system my husband and I have. I know some folk wont understand what the the big deal about weaning a baby is and Its OK, however to my breastfeeding mothers please do not loose hope when its time to wean. It's almost as hard as getting your baby to latch on when you start breastfeeding. It seems like a horror story but i must add that being able to breastfeed my son exclusively for 14 whole months was the best decision I made. It was very difficult but worth it. Weaning my son was not an easy task. It was emotionally draining and very trying. When you decide to wean your baby remember that you will need a lot of patience, persistence and tons of pain medication (YES tons), and remember its totally up to you and your loved one to determine what time works best.     

      We can apply the same principle to our everyday life. You need persistence, patience and sometimes even medication to wean yourself from certain addictions and headaches. You can wean yourself out of bad habits,bad friendships,unhealthy relationships,bad business deals, and more only the minute you decide to. The first step is telling yourself you won’t give up until there is change in the right direction. 

Mothers are amazing.We overcome so much I wonder why we only have one mothers day a year. As a mother sometimes society wants to label and judge you in ways that are unbelievable. There is very little mothers cant do. We are the foundation of every community and do this effortlessly. Living life overcoming one challenge at a time. Celebrate a Mother today. Empower a Woman today.

Celebrate a Phenomenal woman today

INTERNATIONAL WOMENS DAY 

  A Strong woman is consistent. She knows her worth, she does not come in many versions, her word is the same today and tomorrow. She is not influenced by societies norms. You can trust her word, she is the foundation of every gathering. A strong woman does not need constant assurance, she has great self confidence. A strong woman is a woman who is not broken by a few roadblocks, she picks herself up and keeps going. A strong woman fears and Honors God, she makes him in the center of her every decision. A strong woman is honest and Loyal. A strong woman walks in her purpose with her head held high. A strong woman supports and promotes her fellow woman, she is not spiteful. 

A strong woman is a phenomenal woman. Celebrate a phenomenal woman today!

A woman who Loves herself has freed her mind from the burden of hoping,wanting and even needing anyone else to accept all of her. 
Eurykah Fon Ndumu
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A woman who Loves herself has freed her mind from the burden of hoping,wanting and even needing anyone else to accept all of her.Eurykah Fon Ndumu 

 

Give yourself a gift that keeps giving

Greetings everyone. I promise I am working on blogging more and saving the excuses for my diary.

We all have a purpose, we are called to serve a particular purpose because we are unique and wonderfully made. Do not treat yourself like a clearance item. A lot of people head to the clearance rack because all the items there are usually cheaper,out of season, or just by habit. When you don't feed your mind with positivity, when you don't give yourself a mandatory spiritual retreat, when you don't stop to refuel you are putting yourself on the clearance rack. You become out of season and your life seems to be on a stand still.

     I personally would be a part of several women empowerment and spiritual retreats in 2016. And will be speaking at the Virtue Women of Purpose Conference . Take a moment to register and attend a women's empowerment conference this year. Give yourself a gift that keeps giving, a gift that is bigger than red bottoms and Hermes bags. A gift that is life changing and you are able to come out of the sale rack and step up as couture. Give yourself a gift of checking out these upcoming retreats and or conferences and registering to attend at-least one of them. As mothers/women  if we do not give ourselves the much needed break and empowerment we need,we will definitely be running on empty. Giving yourself a break makes you an even better woman. You get to talk, decompress, meet other women, share experiences, and get out of of house chores..haha Im just kidding, but no really imagine how beautiful it is not to yell for an entire weekend. Mommy heaven right? ( I can see a lot of mamipkins smiling at this point).

Check all these conferences and retreats out when you get a moment. Give yourself a gift that keeps giving. Give yourself a break and a moment to recharge.

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